YOU NEED THE VIBRATION TO MARRY
"You cannot have what you are willing to become." ~ Michael Beckwith My mother told me, "You waited such a long time to settle down because you’re so picky!" But, in reality, the truth is that I was traumatized by many of my friend's relationships for a long time. They could barely take care of their kids, and their marriages or relationships were so toxic that it was either dangerous for them or depressing for me. I constantly wanted to save them, encouraging my decision not to jump into a relationship or trust a man. And, when I did finally date again, they turned out to be proof that all of my environment, including me, wasn't in any position to love correctly anyway. I never realized that you could change the people you're around or the type of person you date to make things better or more promising in the end. I was naive to the possibilities of life or the emotional intelligence of it all. The ones I dated were toxic to themselves, making th...